Page List

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu: Part 16 - The Role of Openness - Where We’re Conditioned in Relationships

Part 16: The Role of Openness - Where We’re Conditioned in Relationships

From Ra Uru Hu’s “Understanding Our Design in Relationships” (1998)


"The open centers are where you are vulnerable to conditioning. It’s where the world plays with you."
Ra Uru Hu


What Does “Openness” Mean?

In Human Design, openness refers to the centers in your chart that are undefined (white). These centers are not fixed or consistent like the defined ones — they are open to influence, to conditioning by the people and environment around you.

Ra described them as the “soft spots” of our designs. They’re the places where we’re impressionable and reactive. The problem is, most people don’t know they’re being conditioned by others.

"When you're open, you are like a sponge, absorbing energies. If you don’t understand this, you’re likely to be pulled into something that’s not you."


Which Centers Are Open?

There are nine centers in the Human Design system:

  • Head (Inspiration)

  • Ajna (Conceptualization)

  • Throat (Communication)

  • G Center (Identity, Direction)

  • Heart (Ego, Will)

  • Solar Plexus (Emotions)

  • Sacral (Response)

  • Spleen (Instinct)

  • Root (Pressure)

When any of these centers is white in your chart, it means that energy is open, and it is subject to external influence from the people around you.


How Openness Affects Relationships

1. The Conditioning Effect

The open centers in relationships are where the conditioning happens. You are constantly affected by your partner’s energy and behavior in these areas.

For example:

  • If you have an open Emotional Solar Plexus, you are sensitive to the emotional energy of others. You might feel overwhelmed by your partner’s emotions and think they are yours.

  • If you have an open Throat Center, you may find yourself speaking or acting in ways that reflect your partner's voice — as if you’re trying to express them instead of yourself.

Ra emphasized:

“When you’re open, the world shapes you. And without awareness, it will shape you incorrectly.”


2. The Not-Self's Reaction to Openness

The not-self (the conditioned self) reacts to openness in the following ways:

  • Taking on the energy of others: You absorb your partner’s emotional state, priorities, and perspectives.

  • People-pleasing or adapting: You feel forced to live out the expectations of your partner, even if they’re not your true desires.

  • Self-doubt: If you have an open G Center, you might lose track of your own identity in relationships, becoming dependent on the direction your partner is taking.

  • Inconsistent expression: An open Throat center can make you feel unable to express yourself authentically, mirroring your partner’s communication instead.

Ra said:

“Openness is not a weakness — it’s an opportunity to become aware of how others influence you. It’s not your responsibility to reflect others’ truths; it’s your responsibility to recognize when you’re absorbing someone else’s energy.”


3. Awareness of Your Openness

Understanding your openness allows you to:

  • Recognize conditioning as it happens

  • Make conscious choices about who you interact with

  • Maintain your authenticity even when influenced by others

The key here is:

“When you understand your openness, you can choose what to absorb and what to reject. This is your empowerment.”


The Open Centers and Specific Conditioning Themes

Let’s break down how each open center creates different types of relationship dynamics and conditioning.

Open Head Center

  • Theme: Inspiration and ideas

  • Conditioning Effect: You may feel overwhelmed by all the thoughts and concepts your partner has.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Head, you might feel compelled to adopt their ideas, losing your own clarity.

Open Ajna Center

  • Theme: Conceptualization and certainty

  • Conditioning Effect: You may doubt yourself and feel the need to take on others' beliefs or ideas.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Ajna, you might feel stuck in their rigid thought patterns, losing your ability to form your own concepts.

Open Throat Center

  • Theme: Communication and expression

  • Conditioning Effect: You may mirror your partner’s communication style, feeling pressured to express yourself in ways that don’t feel true to you.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Throat, you may feel unable to speak unless they do first.

Open G Center

  • Theme: Identity and direction

  • Conditioning Effect: You might lose yourself in the relationship and adopt your partner’s sense of direction or identity.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined G Center, you might feel directionless and depend on them for a sense of who you are.

Open Heart Center

  • Theme: Willpower and material drive

  • Conditioning Effect: You might feel pressured to prove yourself or compete to gain approval from your partner.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Heart, you may feel inferior or as though you need to “earn” their love and respect.

Open Solar Plexus Center

  • Theme: Emotions and sensitivity

  • Conditioning Effect: You may amplify your partner’s emotional energy, feeling overwhelmed or confused by their moods.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Solar Plexus, you may feel obligated to follow their emotional cycles and compromise your own.

Open Sacral Center

  • Theme: Response and life force energy

  • Conditioning Effect: You might feel drained or overwhelmed if your partner is highly energetic, leading to exhaustion or pressure to act.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Sacral, you may lack consistent energy and feel pressured to match their rhythm.

Open Spleen Center

  • Theme: Instinct and health

  • Conditioning Effect: You might absorb your partner’s health concerns or intuition, even if they are out of alignment with your own body.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Spleen, you may feel overwhelmed by their fears or health habits, losing touch with your own instincts.

Open Root Center

  • Theme: Pressure and drive

  • Conditioning Effect: You might feel pressured to act quickly or be on the go all the time, even if it’s not your natural rhythm.

  • Challenge: If your partner has a defined Root, you may feel inadequate or rushed by their urgency.


The Role of Awareness in Openness

Being aware of your open centers in relationships allows you to:

  • Observe how your partner’s energy affects you

  • Resist being conditioned by their patterns or decisions

  • Maintain your own truth even in the face of strong influence

Ra emphasized:

“Openness is your greatest asset, not your greatest vulnerability. Learn to understand it and use it consciously.”


Summary of Part 16:

ConceptMeaning
Open CentersUndefined centers are vulnerable to conditioning from others
ConditioningYou may take on your partner’s energy and lose your own sense of self
KeyAwareness of your open centers allows you to choose consciously what energy to absorb
EmpowermentKnowing where you are open helps you avoid being influenced unconsciously
Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu Understanding Our Design in Relationships - 1998 - CD 1 - Track 16

Linktr







Live Your Design: Full Course
Use this code UUZ2ETUT to get 10% off

Rave ABC: Full Course
74 Chapters + 74 PDF Files (English Subs)
Use this code UUZ2ETUT to get 10% off


Blogger:
Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:
-------------------------------------------------------------

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:



Blogger:
Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:
Understanding Our Design in Relationships - 1998
========================================
🤍🕊️🖤
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 1: Introduction to the Mechanics of Relationships in Human - Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

=============================
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 2: The Four Types and How They Relate Energetically - 
Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

==============================
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 3: Strategy & Authority — The Foundation of Correct Relationships - 
Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

================================
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 4: Aura Mechanics: Openness, Resistance, and Bonding - 
Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

================================
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 5Conditioning and the Role of the Undefined Centers in Relationships - 
Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

================================
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 6: The Dynamics of Definition and the Importance of Being You - 
Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

===============================
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 7:
 The Chemistry of Connection – Channels, Gates, and Attraction - 
Learn more
Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

=============================
Blogger: (To read the article)
Part 8: Compromise & Dominance – The Hidden Power Struggles in Connection - Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

==============================
Blogger(To read the article)
Part 9: The Four Types in Relationship – Generators, Projectors, Manifestors, Reflectors - 
Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

==============================
Blogger(To read the article)
Part 10: Open Centers in Relationships – The Source of Pain and Transformation - 
Learn more

Human Design Academy By Ra Uru Hu:

==============================

My Blog List